Sunday, October 12, 2008

Stumbling Wins and Painful Misunderstandings

On Saturday the Oregon Ducks stumbled and bumbled to an unconvincing win over the third worst team in PAC-10, defeating UCLA 31-24 despite a complete inability to pass the ball on offense or cover the tight end down the middle on defense. Their record is now 5-2, with a bye next week. I'm confident they won't lose to BYE but the rest of the season is in serious doubt: right now the Duck receivers are dropping more balls than they catch. I'm thinking of enrolling in graduate school and coming out of retirement, because I couldn't do any worse.

Enough about the Ducks. As much as I love them, they are woeful and dismal right now, probably the worst 5-2 team in the country given the relative ease of their early schedule. I'm not sure they could beat Gustavus Aldophus if forced to play all aerial. Remember "all aerial" from our playground days? It was my favorite kind of football. Everybody's eligible. You can't even rush the quarterback for 3 Mississippis. The Ducks should play some all aerial during the bye week, and find out if anyone on the roster can catch the football. But enough about the Ducks.

My personal life is equally woeful and dismal. Our latest misunderstanding is about a Bud Light key chain and going to a sports bar to watch the game with Doug. The details are unimportant. The key chain was given to me by my sister along with a tee shirt, promotional items offered as a thank you for working the beer stand during the Ross Coleman events, but somehow its origin got miscontrued and terrible tension ensued. Our communication is no better than the Ducks' passing game or pass defense.

But enough about the Ducks. And enough about me. I'll go away until I have something more interesting to say.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thanks for completing not commenting on my hot dog invitation. I rank below Duck football. Tom tied for 1st in the eating contest by the way. We are tied for second in the fantasy football saga, we finally beat Tom's dad!! Yippee......

Me

Dale Bliss said...

Steff--

You don't rank below anything. I thought you were going to call me.

I like hotdogs, but I only like eating them one at a time. Slowly. The thought of entering a hot dog eating contest makes me want to belch.

Gretchen said...

Dale, I'm so sorry things are the way they are with Marie. I know that you love her deeply but you should not have to explain a key chain or watching a football game with an old friend. Sometimes love is simply not enough in this life we think it should me but it's not

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