Wednesday, July 21, 2010

The Power of the List

Schindler had one. Nixon had one. Every man who gets sent to the grocery store for more than two items ought to have one.

There is an innate power in making a list. It's the beginning of commitment. It's the first step in making a concrete plan for any purpose. Any time I make a list, of my chores, my goals, or my tasks for the day, I create a useful road map toward getting where I want to go.

I had a list today with sixteen things on it and I got fifteen of them done with a half hour to spare. I had four hours, and defeated the time suck and inattention that might have swallowed up the day. I was organized. I was systematic. I avoided false steps or distraction. I feel better already.

There is an old saying, "how do you eat an elephant?" Answer: one bite at a time. Anything, any task, any problem, any goal, any budget, becomes more manageable and doable when you divide it into parts. The path becomes clearer. The first and subsequent steps become more obvious. It becomes easier too to make adjustments. When the plan falls apart or runs into a snag it's easier to prioritize and reschedule.

I like simple lists because they don't seem cumbersome or restrictive. They give me just enough structure to orient myself. My time flows more surely. There's a satisfaction and a sense of accomplishment.

For the rest of my days I resolve to be a list maker and a list achiever. That's important, because I'm getting to the point where I need to compose a bucket list, a list I'm already starting to compile in my head. Next week I have a four-day weekend; I'm taking two vacation days for a much-needed mini-holiday. I have another one the third week of August. It will be a great time for knocking more things off my list.

No one ever has enough time or money. But by using the power of the list, we can make the most of what we have, and recognize with better clarity how much of each we have left. That's a powerful tool for a better, more rewarding, less stressful life.

3 comments:

Stephanie said...

Dad--

I'm behind again!!! I'm on what's the worst that could happen. I'll comment as I get caught up. I tell ya these kids are gonna kill me!!!!!!!

Me

Stephanie said...

Dad--

I love lists. Unfortunately for me mine don't seem to get crossed off real well. But try and try again. I have too many little distractions. I believe their names are Kourtney, Ethan, and Elizabeth. At least they are cute.

Me

Dale Bliss said...

Steff--

Thanks for all your comments. Don't forget to write Tom. Please send me some pictures of the golf outing for the blog.

Love,

Dad

This is the Way the Transformation Begins


"Some men see things as they are and say why? I dream things that never were and say "Why not?"
George Bernard Shaw, Robert F. Kennedy


This is the way the transformation begins.
It begins in me.
It begins now.
It begins with small incremental changes and shifts in attitude
it begins with positive action
failing forward
and suddenly I start looking at the world and my place in it in a new way. I speak differently and dress differently and project a different energy, and the world opens up like a glorious pink azalea bush, eight feet tall and blooming like mad.


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Good morning!

An engineer builds a bridge and every bolt and weld has to be exactly right; every measure has to be perfect, or the bridge collapses or fails to take its place. Fantastically detailed blueprints have to be laid out. Impact statements have to be filed, sediment has to be studied, years of effort, months of planning, and a man-made marvel rises in the sky. Park somewhere and take a good look at a bridge, and think of all the skill and knowledge and hard honest work it took to create it. Consider how a few thousand years ago we were living in caves.

It is not so with a dream. Some people are remarkable dreamers and dreams spring whole from them, or they can leap up from bed and pages of creative genius flow out of their pen, intricate and perfect. Most of us though are baby dreamers, new at it and tentative to the trust the power of what we wish for.

Start the dream! Whether you want to go to nursing school or college or learn to play the guitar, take a first step, now, even in the wrong direction. Don't wait for the blueprint to come to you, the environmental impact statement, the permits and the 200-page budget and legislative dream approval. Rough it out, sketch it on a napkin, tell a friend, and take action. Your dream begins the moment you step out in first moment of believing, and the result can touch a thousand souls. Listen to Jim Valvano: never give up, never surrender. Believe in the audacity of action and your fantastic potential for change and new opportunity.

The Hawthorne Bridge at sunrise, Portland Oregon. Photo by Joe Collver, from flickr.com
Genuine happiness and success start with an attitude of abundance

Make it a daily practice to begin your day with five minutes of thankfulness. You can even do it in your car on the way to work. Do it in your own way, whether it's thoughtful reflection or a prayer or singing out loud, but focus on your rich, amazing, abundant life.

Feeling grumpy or resentful or worried instead of thankful? Change direction! Consider the incredible gifts you have--mind, body, spirit, senses, your family, your friends, your clothes, your car, and the breakfast you enjoyed this morning. By the standards of 99% of the world, Americans are incredibly, amazingly rich. You truly have no idea how richly blessed you are until you start thinking about it. Even the heart that beats within you and the lungs that breathe your air are an intricate and amazing miracle.

Some of my favorite movies are ones that feature a once-defeated character waking up to an absolutely new day: "It's A Wonderful Life," the various versions of Dicken's "Christmas Carol" and "Groundhog Day." How exhilarating it is for George Bailey to wake up and realize his life isn't over, it's just beginning, and that today truly is a brand new day.


"It's a Wonderful Life"

"It's a Wonderful Life"
George returns home to everything he ever wanted.