Tuesday, July 6, 2010
The Sum of All Fearlessness
Time and determination are the greatest warriors. Beware of the time suck, which robs you of your power. So easily we get caught up in mindless distractions and the dead end side roads of busy-ness, when with time and determination and goals and focus we could accomplish anything.
I mumble and grouse about my lousy job and lack of accomplishment, I fume and fuss over the lost opportunities and the regrets of my life, and every day I encounter remarkable stories of people accomplishing great things by the power of their spirit and their will.
We limit ourselves. Our small choices accumulate and become our destiny. We squander what God gave us with inattention, and the chief thing I squander is my time. By living with no intention I give away precious hours that turn into years. If I were more directed, if I were selective and self-determined, I could accomplish anything.
I could even learn to play guitar.
This is the Way the Transformation Begins
"Some men see things as they are and say why? I dream things that never were and say "Why not?"
George Bernard Shaw, Robert F. Kennedy
This is the way the transformation begins.
It begins in me.
It begins now.
It begins with small incremental changes and shifts in attitude
it begins with positive action
failing forward
and suddenly I start looking at the world and my place in it in a new way. I speak differently and dress differently and project a different energy, and the world opens up like a glorious pink azalea bush, eight feet tall and blooming like mad.
Good morning!
It is not so with a dream. Some people are remarkable dreamers and dreams spring whole from them, or they can leap up from bed and pages of creative genius flow out of their pen, intricate and perfect. Most of us though are baby dreamers, new at it and tentative to the trust the power of what we wish for.
Start the dream! Whether you want to go to nursing school or college or learn to play the guitar, take a first step, now, even in the wrong direction. Don't wait for the blueprint to come to you, the environmental impact statement, the permits and the 200-page budget and legislative dream approval. Rough it out, sketch it on a napkin, tell a friend, and take action. Your dream begins the moment you step out in first moment of believing, and the result can touch a thousand souls. Listen to Jim Valvano: never give up, never surrender. Believe in the audacity of action and your fantastic potential for change and new opportunity.
Make it a daily practice to begin your day with five minutes of thankfulness. You can even do it in your car on the way to work. Do it in your own way, whether it's thoughtful reflection or a prayer or singing out loud, but focus on your rich, amazing, abundant life.
Feeling grumpy or resentful or worried instead of thankful? Change direction! Consider the incredible gifts you have--mind, body, spirit, senses, your family, your friends, your clothes, your car, and the breakfast you enjoyed this morning. By the standards of 99% of the world, Americans are incredibly, amazingly rich. You truly have no idea how richly blessed you are until you start thinking about it. Even the heart that beats within you and the lungs that breathe your air are an intricate and amazing miracle.
Some of my favorite movies are ones that feature a once-defeated character waking up to an absolutely new day: "It's A Wonderful Life," the various versions of Dicken's "Christmas Carol" and "Groundhog Day." How exhilarating it is for George Bailey to wake up and realize his life isn't over, it's just beginning, and that today truly is a brand new day.
1 comment:
Dad--
Whatever happened with your bar buying idea? I thought it was interesting. I couldn't remember which post it was. And if you really want to learn to play guitar I know a guy, hahaha. Actually I think Tom is pretty good, he always says he's not but we like listening to it. He sends videos back to the kids all the time with new songs.
Me
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