Sunday, June 13, 2010

Babies

I utterly loved this movie. It was delightful enough in and of itself, but one of the things I appreciated about it is that it reminded me how powerful a movie can be.

The story is told simply. Director Thomas Balmes follows the lives of four real babies from four corners of the world, from birth to their first steps. There is very little dialogue, and the camera watches the babies quietly at floor level, and the results are delightful to watch.

There are three girls and a boy, from Mongolia, Africa, Tokoyo and San Francisco. It's mesmerizing to watch their first feedings, their surroundings, the beautiful, haunting landscapes, their first words, their first steps. All the little discoveries an infant makes are quietly recorded. The message is, babies thrive if they are loved, and the love we have for babies is universal in most circumstances. Hattie from San Francisco, with her well-to-do New Age parents, is no more or no less loved than the boy born on the steppes of Mongolia or the charming little girl from the grasslands of Africa. The babies are beautiful. Watching, you love each and every one of them, even for their tantrums and fusses and tumbles. It's inspiring how well babies adapt to their surroundings. The Mongolian boy is unbothered by the rooster on his bed, and make a play structure out of an overturned barrel in the middle of the cattle.

It was one of the most memorable and inspiring and joyous movies I have ever seen. Curiously, as much as I love movies we rarely see one in the theater, but I'm supremely glad we watched this one there, in the opulent and grand theater/palace at Bridgeport Regal Cinemas. The candy machine ripped me off a dollar, and I had to fill out a form to get it back. We found an all-night Subway for dinner.

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This is the Way the Transformation Begins


"Some men see things as they are and say why? I dream things that never were and say "Why not?"
George Bernard Shaw, Robert F. Kennedy


This is the way the transformation begins.
It begins in me.
It begins now.
It begins with small incremental changes and shifts in attitude
it begins with positive action
failing forward
and suddenly I start looking at the world and my place in it in a new way. I speak differently and dress differently and project a different energy, and the world opens up like a glorious pink azalea bush, eight feet tall and blooming like mad.


photo by Kajo123 from the website flickr.com

Good morning!

An engineer builds a bridge and every bolt and weld has to be exactly right; every measure has to be perfect, or the bridge collapses or fails to take its place. Fantastically detailed blueprints have to be laid out. Impact statements have to be filed, sediment has to be studied, years of effort, months of planning, and a man-made marvel rises in the sky. Park somewhere and take a good look at a bridge, and think of all the skill and knowledge and hard honest work it took to create it. Consider how a few thousand years ago we were living in caves.

It is not so with a dream. Some people are remarkable dreamers and dreams spring whole from them, or they can leap up from bed and pages of creative genius flow out of their pen, intricate and perfect. Most of us though are baby dreamers, new at it and tentative to the trust the power of what we wish for.

Start the dream! Whether you want to go to nursing school or college or learn to play the guitar, take a first step, now, even in the wrong direction. Don't wait for the blueprint to come to you, the environmental impact statement, the permits and the 200-page budget and legislative dream approval. Rough it out, sketch it on a napkin, tell a friend, and take action. Your dream begins the moment you step out in first moment of believing, and the result can touch a thousand souls. Listen to Jim Valvano: never give up, never surrender. Believe in the audacity of action and your fantastic potential for change and new opportunity.

The Hawthorne Bridge at sunrise, Portland Oregon. Photo by Joe Collver, from flickr.com
Genuine happiness and success start with an attitude of abundance

Make it a daily practice to begin your day with five minutes of thankfulness. You can even do it in your car on the way to work. Do it in your own way, whether it's thoughtful reflection or a prayer or singing out loud, but focus on your rich, amazing, abundant life.

Feeling grumpy or resentful or worried instead of thankful? Change direction! Consider the incredible gifts you have--mind, body, spirit, senses, your family, your friends, your clothes, your car, and the breakfast you enjoyed this morning. By the standards of 99% of the world, Americans are incredibly, amazingly rich. You truly have no idea how richly blessed you are until you start thinking about it. Even the heart that beats within you and the lungs that breathe your air are an intricate and amazing miracle.

Some of my favorite movies are ones that feature a once-defeated character waking up to an absolutely new day: "It's A Wonderful Life," the various versions of Dicken's "Christmas Carol" and "Groundhog Day." How exhilarating it is for George Bailey to wake up and realize his life isn't over, it's just beginning, and that today truly is a brand new day.


"It's a Wonderful Life"

"It's a Wonderful Life"
George returns home to everything he ever wanted.