Thursday, June 3, 2010

You just have to believe that you're that guy

Ever have the dream where you're swimming or playing basketball or football, and no one can stop you? Like most of our dreams, this one is trying to tell us something important.

There is a winner within all of us. Experience and complacency has taught us to drown out its music with the noise of distraction and negativity. There is a song of hope that sings out of our heart, but we can only hear it in stillness and the practice of faith and vision.

A lean, alert, pulsing warrior wants to emerge out of our sloth and discouragement. An achiever, a true believer, an adventurer, an truly alive person who embraces life and possibility. We are meant to touch other people and do hard, good things. Often we settle for far less and remain defeated and small.

We quiet our dreams and lose their clarity. Living without the focus and vitality of our dreamer selves, life becomes a forced march through the sludge and muck of routine, obligation, and habit. A deadly spiritual atherosclerosis sets in, living on fried fats and deadened imagination, brought on chiefly by the failure to read, think, dream, play and love.

Look around! Notice for a moment the beautiful unifying order God gave the world. Watch a happy baby play on the floor with a few toys. Watch them discover the joy of twisting a knob or ringing a bell, turning a lever or kissing their toes. Watch how delighted and playful we are as infants, and realize we were meant to be that way.

Experience teaches us danger and regret, and slowly we teach ourselves that is all there is. We drown out the music of our souls, and deaden ourselves to beauty and hope. Over time we misplace the ability to run or laugh or even cry meaningfully. As babies we cry so creatively. We convey deep sadness, outrage, discomfort, or the desire to be held. Indignation pours out of our souls and creates an urgency for change. As adults we never expect change. We forget to believe it can happen. We forget how much power we have to create it. Babies cry and discover and dream with great joy. Most adults hardly do any of these at all.

A lot has been written about the great physicist Albert Einstein and what made his marvelous brain different from other men. Certainly he was born with a great capacity to think and learn, but one of the keys to fostering it was the child-like curiosity and simplicity he encouraged in himself. When he was five his father bought him a compass, and that inspired his fascination with science, the inner creativity of thought that spurred him all his life.

Of course there was only one Einstein. But we are all meant to remain creative, curious, hopeful beings. It's our nature to contemplate and wonder and dream. We have to stop letting the noise of the soulless brutal adult world drown it out.

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This is the Way the Transformation Begins


"Some men see things as they are and say why? I dream things that never were and say "Why not?"
George Bernard Shaw, Robert F. Kennedy


This is the way the transformation begins.
It begins in me.
It begins now.
It begins with small incremental changes and shifts in attitude
it begins with positive action
failing forward
and suddenly I start looking at the world and my place in it in a new way. I speak differently and dress differently and project a different energy, and the world opens up like a glorious pink azalea bush, eight feet tall and blooming like mad.


photo by Kajo123 from the website flickr.com

Good morning!

An engineer builds a bridge and every bolt and weld has to be exactly right; every measure has to be perfect, or the bridge collapses or fails to take its place. Fantastically detailed blueprints have to be laid out. Impact statements have to be filed, sediment has to be studied, years of effort, months of planning, and a man-made marvel rises in the sky. Park somewhere and take a good look at a bridge, and think of all the skill and knowledge and hard honest work it took to create it. Consider how a few thousand years ago we were living in caves.

It is not so with a dream. Some people are remarkable dreamers and dreams spring whole from them, or they can leap up from bed and pages of creative genius flow out of their pen, intricate and perfect. Most of us though are baby dreamers, new at it and tentative to the trust the power of what we wish for.

Start the dream! Whether you want to go to nursing school or college or learn to play the guitar, take a first step, now, even in the wrong direction. Don't wait for the blueprint to come to you, the environmental impact statement, the permits and the 200-page budget and legislative dream approval. Rough it out, sketch it on a napkin, tell a friend, and take action. Your dream begins the moment you step out in first moment of believing, and the result can touch a thousand souls. Listen to Jim Valvano: never give up, never surrender. Believe in the audacity of action and your fantastic potential for change and new opportunity.

The Hawthorne Bridge at sunrise, Portland Oregon. Photo by Joe Collver, from flickr.com
Genuine happiness and success start with an attitude of abundance

Make it a daily practice to begin your day with five minutes of thankfulness. You can even do it in your car on the way to work. Do it in your own way, whether it's thoughtful reflection or a prayer or singing out loud, but focus on your rich, amazing, abundant life.

Feeling grumpy or resentful or worried instead of thankful? Change direction! Consider the incredible gifts you have--mind, body, spirit, senses, your family, your friends, your clothes, your car, and the breakfast you enjoyed this morning. By the standards of 99% of the world, Americans are incredibly, amazingly rich. You truly have no idea how richly blessed you are until you start thinking about it. Even the heart that beats within you and the lungs that breathe your air are an intricate and amazing miracle.

Some of my favorite movies are ones that feature a once-defeated character waking up to an absolutely new day: "It's A Wonderful Life," the various versions of Dicken's "Christmas Carol" and "Groundhog Day." How exhilarating it is for George Bailey to wake up and realize his life isn't over, it's just beginning, and that today truly is a brand new day.


"It's a Wonderful Life"

"It's a Wonderful Life"
George returns home to everything he ever wanted.